When you're doing a character check on a person, take note of certain traits that are significant if you plan to form a long term relationship. Many would say awwww these are so petty. Nonetheless normal behavioral patterns are tell tale sign of a person's character.
For example, with certain people it is very difficult for them to say even simple cordialities like... "Please"..."Thank you"... "I'm sorry" ...
These are basic manners taught to us from young and yet is seems there are persons who simply cannot bring themselves to say these! Take for instance it's only natural and befitting for a person to say, "I'm sorry!" when he or she is clearly at fault or have done some misdeeds (big or small). Instead of doing that, he/she starts to play the blame game putting the aggrieved part to shame instead. They usually start being evasive, not owning up to any wrong doings. Make the other person doubtful and even fearful.
The second these haughty persons cornered, they will switch tactic and become the aggressor, often lashing out in rage. Their countenance reflecting the sort of flush; with burning eyes and flaring nostrils which kind of resemble the devil throwing a tantrum just to get his way. They shout louder and are merciless with the violence in their voice and stance. At the end of it you wonder what the 'tut tut has just happened!
Just one observation but this is a huge red flag to be mindful of. Useful tip for character check...
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