A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Wednesday, September 30, 2015

IT'S LIKE THIS ...

It's like this ... we're not going to win every popularity contest; not every plan will lead to instant success. 
Sometimes we'll make lousy decision and pay painfully for it! At other times people will challenge us when we're right, more interestingly, BECAUSE we're right! 

Friends and associates will forsake us because we no longer serve their purpose. 
Disaster hits with little warning.

If the 'tsunami' doesn't kill us, we'll live to be stronger, smarter, more sensitive and better equipped to deal with the 'avalanches' in life.


Some morning when we awake and find our dreams shattered, our purpose scattered and our pride in tatters, don't be TOO surprised with the inevitable. 

The sooner we realize the world doesn't revolve around us, the faster we'll recover! 

Take heart...everything will be okay eventually.




Saturday, September 26, 2015

PAT ON THE BACK

I know I'm living on borrowed time. We all are. Just a matter of who reaches the finishing line first! 
But as long as I still have control and use of my faculties; the ability to read, write, create; sing and dance, love and laugh, you can be certain I won't go quietly!

Life is short, so they say. 

But life can also be sensational. If we refuse to stay stagnant and stale but choose to celebrate rather than merely tolerate that which has been handed to us, we can rest assuredly give our friends something sweet and significant to remember us by. 

And for that we deserve more than a pat on the back...




Sunday, September 20, 2015

CULTURE SHOCK

Doing the right thing is a big thing! 
That belief maybe a tad old-fashioned but nevertheless has stood the test of time and augurs well for all seasons.


Doesn't matter if it's out of duty, remorse, obligation or forced compliance; whether halfheartedly or even begrudging, it's decent to be fair, honest, just and kind. 

Unfortunately, it appears the world has been overtaken by the selfish cry of 'YOU LIKE or I LIKE' and some of us are reeling from this wide spread culture shock! Stunned!

Never mind about walking the extra mile, giving from the heart and emptying our resources for the interest and betterment of others. That kind of generosity, sacrifice and selfless commitment are not our natural inclination.
If we can only bring ourselves to do the right thing - which is so difficult at times - that alone should suffice to make the little corner of our world, a more prosperous, progressive, peaceful and pleasing habitat.




Tuesday, September 15, 2015

FOC

Freedom of Choice - FOC - is our prerogative to love unconditionally, act wisely, think positively, do the right thing; build relationship bridges, bury the past and dream for the future.
A closed mind, a caged spirit, a couldn't-care-less attitude and a cold heart renders an individual hopelessly enslaved ...



Saturday, September 12, 2015

PUZZLE

For now I can only see in part.  Some day when the whole picture is complete, then I shall know in full.
All questions that beg for answers and all problems that seek solutions will dissipate.  Nagging doubts and hazy thoughts will eventually be crystal clear when at last the final piece of the puzzle is put perfectly together.




Tuesday, September 8, 2015

LAVISH SPENDING

I know people who would not spend lavishly on themselves but when it comes to helping others, they do so with an immensely generous spirit and big heart; neither counting the cost nor blowing the trumpet. 

No act of kindness, however trivial, is ever in vain or really forgotten. It just takes time and thoughtful reflection for the good of it to sink in. 


"Find a need and meet it." 





Wednesday, September 2, 2015

YOU'RE MY WORLD

CILLA BLACK

You're my world, you're every breath I take,
You're my world you're every move I make,
Other eyes see the stars up in the skies,
But for me they shine within your eyes,
As the trees reach for the sun above,
So my arms reach out to you for love,
With your hand resting in mine,
I feel a power so divine,
You're my world, you are my night and day,
You're my world you're every prayer I pray,
If our love ceases to be,
Then it's the end of my world for me.