A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

I SALUTE YOU ... ONE AND ALL

Some people find it hard to believe that I work. 
They imagine that I am a 'Lady Of Leisure',
a pampered 'Tai-Tai' who is living off a wealthy, doting, attentive husband
 - a provider - who would look after all the money matters!
(If only that's true...chuckle ...)
I'm afraid I haven't perfected the art of controlling the 'purse-strings', his.
(Still a long way to go!)
I'll keep at it, of course, but meanwhile I shall continue to enjoy my work..
In my business, I am privilege (and proud) to meet some of the most intelligent,
impressive, influential, innovative, illustrious and inspiring
(not to mention incredibly beautiful and good looking) personalities in the industry. 
This has got to rank as the Number One reason why I find my work meaningful,
refreshing and invigorating ...
There is never a dull moment.
To all the special people who make my work life exceptional, engaging
and exciting in so many different ways,
I salute you...
You're the best!
(ps. For the time being, I can only post these photos but that is not to
say that I have exhausted the list.  Definitely not!
I shall return with more pictures from the archives for your viewing pleasure.)





















Tuesday, November 23, 2010

CHRISTMAS IN HONG KONG

I get nostalgic just thinking about it ...


Attached pictures of three Christmases ago with family and friends, walking the streets of 'Lan-Kwai-Fong' on Christmas Day ... aahhhhh ... such a wonderful feeling of warmth, welcome and wellness.


And Yes!  I'm spending this Christmas season in Hong Kong, one of my favourite places in the world ... yea...


Mystical, magnetic, magical and magnificent Hong Kong, here I come!












Saturday, November 20, 2010

HOME SWEET HOME ...

Yes, another week has gone by.
The market place is an exciting place, frightening as well. 
Most of us work out of need.  And since this is something that is expected of us, we might as well make the best of it!
Winning is what all corporate games is about.  But to make it sound nicer and more civilise, we prefer to say, 'Lets have a WIN-WIN situation in all work related confrontations!
When it comes to fierce competition for that coveted promotion or to land that big deal, it's each man for himself!
Although the steps up the proverbial ladder of success are made of cardboard and the two poles that you grasp to haul yourself up are greased with oil, doesn't seem to deter the corporate aggressor in you to make a go at reaching the summit.
It's a dog-eat-dog world; a rat race.
And may the best rat wins!
I had a look at my normal work week and at the end of the exercise came up with some interesting findings.
I occupy an 18 feet by 20 feet space at an office which measures in total 44 feet in width by 95 feet in length.
Considering that, I am quite comfortable and am better off than many who are confined in tiny cubicles of 4 feet by 8 feet.
It's a privilege that comes with the position! (broad smile)
In case you have different ideas, I do go there to work and not to enjoy the air-conditioning! (wink)
In a normal work week I would view an approximately 700-800 emails (on 3 different email addresses), 80 percent of them are on the business while the balance are personal and forwarded ones.  I need only reply personally on 30 percent of those that are related to work.  The rest are delegated.  Another privilege accorded to my position!
Weekly, I take in a minimum of ten to twelve meetings/discussions; several phone calls, mostly pleasant ones.
(I make my usual rounds, acknowledging all the other staff and even stopping to ask about the janitor's (an Indonesian woman in her forties) health and how her family is doing back home. Not forgetting also the Indian boy who whistles while cleaning my car.  He happily breaks into song (and does a jig) whenever he sees me. He knows lunch for that day will be a little more lavish because of the extra 'kopi money' he will receive for certain.)
I need my coffee to start the day and consume up to 18 cups (ten of 3-in-1 and the rest Kopi-O) and 8 large mugs of Chinese tea. My weekly ration.
Who says work is a bore?  It needn't be.
Brunches and lunches are usually taken in different restaurants with a wide selection of Chinese, Indian, Muslim, Italian, German, Japanese, Vietnamese etc...
Distance is never a deterrent when it comes to food.  Somedays I would do 50 kilometres just to have the best 'kway teow soup' in town... thanks to the recommendation of food expert Mr. Wong.  With the assistance of the now popular GPS, I can tell the difference between Semenyih and Segambut! (Don't laugh.  I bet you didn't know the difference between the two at one time as well!) heheheh
On a normal work week with no incidents of bad weather, floods or accidents on the highway, I put in an average of 20 hours on the road; with a minimum of 45 stops at the toll booths, 25 stops at the traffic lights and 2 stops at the SHELL or PETRONAS station for fuel.
Sounds familiar? 
A lot of hours are spent on the road but I'm okay with the arrangement for the present. Drive time is a good time for thinking, planning, strategising, scheming,  reflecting but mostly I use this 'quiet time' for dreaming ... big dreams.
My efforts at work may not be immediately visible but I know for sure that the 'seeds' I have sowed are slowly taking roots.  Eventually they will grow.  I believe I am engage in meaningful work and that adds value to my life.
I am grateful for the career that I have built and the lifestyle it supports.
On the other hand, much as I enjoy the daily adrenaline rush generated at work and tackling the various challenges of doing business, I look forward to ... going home in the evenings.
There is something welcoming about the lights at the porch which would be ON and already visible from a distance. 
Our dog would be at the gate, barking with delight and she'll be wagging her tail like crazy ...
Alighting from the car, I'll kick off my 4 inch 'Charles & Keith' stilettos and slip into softly padded slippers placed neatly and discreetly at the same corner by the winding staircase.
There is a familiar smell as I enter the kitchen...and reach for a glass of freshly squeezed apple juice ... raid the cookie jar and help myself to a large piece of crispy rich Scottish short-bread... sink into my favorite chair and wait for the 'gong' to sound announcing that dinner is ready.
Yes, it's nice to be at work but it's nicer still to be home - sweet home - after a highly charged day at the marketplace. 

Thursday, November 11, 2010

2nd Edition

Dear Friends,

Warm greetings!

I thought you might like to know that we are preparing for the 2nd Edition of As Time Goes By - a book by Lynn Wong.
Yes! the stock to the first lot of Limited Edition is fast running out.
A million thanks to all who supported - whether it was in the purchase of one or one hundred copies!

I am deeply, deeply touched by the many positive feedbacks and responses.
Several people have called me personally to express their heartfelt gratitude for the 'inspiring elements' found in the book.
The best one among all the comments came from a retired nurse.  She has this to say, "You've breathed new life into this old heart...and created a stirring so strong that has caused me to want to do something to help."
This previous 'Florence Nightingale' is prepared to come out of her comfortable retirement to serve once again.

She explained that she found renewed purpose and challenge in her 'old age' through the article on "How Will You Be Remembered?"
She said that perhaps this is a higher calling for her to make a difference and that her life will take on a new meaning through this experience.

Excerpts from the article:
"Rather than take a complacent stand, we should speak up, stand up and support the protection and preservation of our children.  We should not tolerate anymore the injustices done to them." unquote

To the question of, "Will you do something positive to alleviate their sufferings today?"
Her answer was a resounding Yes! Yes! Yes!

I am so glad that ATGB can and do make a difference in people's attitudes and spur them to take action for good changes.
What a privilege it is for me to witness this through my writing. (Giving thanks with a grateful heart).

Back to the 2nd Edition, I'll have more updates in my next post.

Cheerio!

- Lynn -

Monday, November 1, 2010

From the Chapter 'Ordinary Things' by Lynn Wong

I ’ve stopped looking for the spectacular and realized there are excitement
and anticipation in mundane and monotonous situation as well. 
Routine is better. I like to get up in the morning and know what needs to be done. 
It would be terribly depressing and unsettling to have no schedules, 
no plans, no to-do lists! 

The beds would not be made, there would be no food in the refrigerator.
Who would send the kids to school and pick up the laundry?
Consistency is preferred over chaos. Familiarity works well.  
Who needs furniture to be moved every day! Controlled freedom is preferred.  
Assigned parameters are good as they draw clear boundaries to ensure we don’t 
step out of line, yardsticks to measure how far we can go. Who likes to live in a 
lawless state? Orderliness is another form of freedom. Consistency works just as 
well with creativity and innovation. Discipline may be a word many would avoid as 
it denotes certain limitations; out of bounds.   

However, who  would want to suggest that discipline be removed entirely from homes, schools  and government?  

Allow for inquisitiveness; reject complacency and false contentment.
Challenge the mind. Doing the ordinary things for extraordinary results.