A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Friday, September 15, 2023

CHARACTER CHECK

When you're doing a character check on a person, take note of certain traits that are significant if you plan to form a long term relationship.  Many would say awwww these are so petty. Nonetheless normal behavioral patterns are tell tale sign of a person's character.  

For example, with certain people it is very difficult for them to say even simple cordialities like... "Please"..."Thank you"... "I'm sorry" ...

These are basic manners taught to us from young and yet is seems there are persons who simply cannot bring themselves to say these!  Take for instance it's only natural and befitting for a person to say, "I'm sorry!" when he or she is clearly at fault or have done some misdeeds (big or small). Instead of doing that, he/she starts to play the blame game putting the aggrieved part to shame instead. They usually start being evasive, not owning up to any wrong doings. Make the other person doubtful and even fearful. 

The second these haughty persons cornered, they will switch tactic and become the aggressor, often lashing out in rage.  Their countenance reflecting the sort of flush; with burning eyes and flaring nostrils which kind of resemble the devil throwing a tantrum just to get his way. They shout louder and are merciless with the violence in their voice and stance.  At the end of it you wonder what the 'tut tut has just happened!

Just one observation but this is a huge red flag to be mindful of.  Useful tip for character check...











Thursday, September 7, 2023

TOUGH LOVE

Take this time to seek God and reflect on your life.

Do not venture deeper into all those addictions which will eventually suck the life out of you.  You know you are living a lie and only TRUTH can set you free.

Take your power back...in whatever area of your life that you have knowingly or unknowingly surrendered to the Enemy... take it back.  

You are stronger than you think; better than your think.  Do not believe the lie that you have no value.  You were blood purchased 2,000 years ago.









Overcome your fear with faith.   Tough decisions will always be supported by Tough Love. 

Let the better of you take charge of your life; your destiny.  If not now, when!

Sending blessing and all kind thoughts...