CHEAPSKATE

I don't clamor for the latest fashion or (overly) pricey branded stuff. Just as well! There's no way I'll pay $80k for a handbag or accessories or clothes because of the name. For one, I couldn't afford them; for another, I don't have the right avenue to show them off, anyway! No one or group I care to impress.
Admittedly, I shop only when there's an irresistible SALE- like 70% discount!! 


And yes, I still look at the right hand column (price indicator) of restaurant menus before I order. CHEAPSKATE!? Maybe. But it's better than splashing mindlessly and impulsively on stuff I don't really need or want. 
Why be in debt? Rather save for that rainy day. 
It's probably just me. I'm happy...

SHALLOW FLATTERY

I am a sucker for 'sweet' words of ... exhortation... endorsement...enchantment.. encouragement and affirmation. Most are, I believe!
I've learnt to differentiate shallow flattery from genuine feedback. Rather than be swollen headed over nice things heard, I try, instead, to be more grounded, level headed and work harder at outperforming myself. Attempt to be a little better, kinder, gentler and happier today than I was yesterday. 
Life is more significant that way. 
More importantly, I hope my words, too, are sweet and seasoned to appease the hunger and thirst of some needy soul, in timely fashion...

TEMPORARY INCONVENIENCES

As long as the 'storms' (of life) are around and not IN us, we can find reasons to smile. Regard challenges, difficulties and mistakes as temporary inconveniences which will soon be gone; just passing through. Laughter is good medicine and music to the ears. 
Let troubles rage, we can still find joy, calm and peace when we know on WHOSE shoulders we stand. HE will surely lift us up and raise us to where He wants us to be. 
It is when we are weak that HE is strong...

HAPPY ENDING

People have drifted so far apart that it's hard to imagine once upon a time, they were inseparable to the extent their very existence depended on each other. Then came the fallout and imminent disappearance. Never seen again and not missed!
Quite sad and unfortunate, really.  But that's life.

In reverse, it's exceptionally heartwarming and nice when people reconcile after a long absence and silence; rekindling that old familiar feeling of tender love and care.
Happy endings always bring a smile...

HOBBIES

Can't decide whether she likes gardening or cooking more. So, she took up both and really satisfied that these hobbies have turned out surprisingly well.
On the downside though, she's beginning to feel and look more and more like an Auntie Ah-Soh! Somewhat domesticated. 
Better do something before she's mistaken for the house help or nanny!!!!

THORNY

Thorny issues surface because people are 'torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool...' 
One part says, 'do it' whilst the other insists, 'don't!' 
The conscience is clear on what must be done but the ego dictates otherwise.
And so the 'horns' ...errrmm...sorry, I meant, the 'thorns' grow!!!

LONG AND WINDING ROAD

And the memories come flooding back...
Finding closure isn't the easiest thing to do for one who has been gravely traumatized; hurt, humiliated, slighted, battered, violated and tortured. Some don't ever heal and continue to live sad dysfunctional lives, of quiet desperation. Thankfully, there are others who through medical therapy, expert counselling with strong support from family and friends have managed to overcome their heartbreaking, devastating mental anguish and 'rise from the ashes.' These individuals are like 'dried bones given new life' almost miraculously.
Faith fueled by courage, perseverance, determination, resilience and an attitude that never-say-die could possibly be the beginning of the long and winding road to recovery and finally, self awareness.
Bravo for staying the course!

EXCELLENCE

There's always a first! 
Life presents endless opportunities for those who dare venture out in search of excellence. If you like the idea, stay with it. If you don't, shelve it and think no more of what might have been!
Find your niche and make your mark. It's never too late or too early to begin a new 'project.' 
Age is merely a deterrent and not a definition of who one is. 

I'm moving forward and not looking back!

KEEN OBSERVER

I'd like to imagine I'm a keen observer of life and a proactive one at that! Always examining, forever exploring, experimenting and enlarging my horizon; curiously and enthusiastically embracing the inexhaustible wonders of creation. Being totally immersed and engaged in and about my little part of the world. 
May the all consuming fire for the zest of life, burn, unabated in my heart, for eternity...

SABAH

Here I am, at the site of Mt. Kinabalu, Sabah. 

Well, truth be told, I didn't climb the mountain but I got close enough! Alas, the spirit was willing but the flesh, weak!! 

Dubbed mini New Zealand, Sabah has many irresistible charms and in some inexplicable wonderful way, I am under its spell...

GOLDEN EGGS

May the proverbial hen that lays the golden eggs continue to bring you peace, prosperity, success and good fortune in every area of your life.  Blessings abound...

SMILE

What a difference a   s m i l e   makes ...

SOW LOVE

Take it one day at a time. Linger over tea and stop to smell the flowers...drink in the beauty that surrounds us. Think happy thoughts, exercise patience, spread joy, show kindness and sow love. 
Live with few regrets. 
Cheerio!!

UNLEASH THE POWER

An inquisitive mind, an adventurous spirit, a generous heart and a loving nature put us on the path to be all we can be. 
With perseverance, practice and panache, we can unleash the power within us for greater performance and higher achievements.

Every day I try to do a little better than the day before. Always learning, constantly exploring and never stop listening. Give time for reflection and meditation. Quit blaming and keep moving. 
Happy!!!

COOL

Thankful and in awe at how things are falling in place; slowly but surely. No more running in circles, no mad scramble, no beating round the bush, no charade and no sweat. 
Just go with the flow; stay calm, stay collected and always be cool ...

😅😎

PERSONA

Like it or loathe it, everyone is different; unique in his/her character, talent, purpose and calling. No two persons are alike. 
Rather than apologize, let us celebrate our one-of-a-kind persona with gusto!

FEELINGS

A decision based solely on emotions can sometimes lead to regret with adverse repercussions. Feelings are mostly flighty, flimsy and fickle.
"Think before taking the leap" is sound advice.

JUNGLE TREKKING

Certainly ill prepared but took the plunge anyway! 
On the spur of the moment agreed to go jungle trekking and hill climbing. A definite first for me. Felt unreasonably adventurous and courageous. Oblivious to the dangers deep in the forest, we were fortunate not to encounter wild boars, snakes, scorpions and other unmentionable creepy crawly creatures. 
Good thing the weather held good. What a triumph to emerge after the trek unscathed. Good training to prepare for my next challenge - Mt. Kinabalu! 
Yea, sure, talk only !?*^"

BANANA LEAF

Nothing speaks better of being home than home food. Banana leaf rice with teh tarik kurang manis (pull tea less sweet!!) 
Absolutely irresistible...