A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Sunday, August 26, 2018

PERFORMANCE

Good friends never go out of season. They don't change with the times or fashion! Any relationship that is based on performance - the 'what's in it for me' mentality - can be exhausting. 
Performance vs Preference.
Choose friends who will always have your back just like you will always have theirs! 



HOLD HANDS

My father's one true love was my mother.
My mother had many, many admirers but only one love ...my father. Their union was far from being perfect but they had their moments.
Very few couples I know hold hands in their sleep. My dad and mum did ... love wins.



BE STILL

For all the times you've stood up; spoken out; protected and defended the underdog, wouldn't it be nice to have someone stand up; speak out; protect and defend you for a change!?

You have ... the Master of the Universe whispers: "Be still and know that I am God."



OPPOSITION


We often regard objection/opposition as obstacles which we abhor! That's negative thinking.
Positively, from a different perspective, when faced with objections/oppositions, we're compelled to find solutions to remove or overcome them. 
We need to quiet down; plan ... meditate ... seek alternatives ... explore options and proceed with confidence, clarity, caution and wisdom.
Our entire being - body, mind and spirit are then aligned in perfect synchronicity to take on the objection/opposition which has now become the opportunity for our personal growth and greater success. We can no longer adopt a lackadaisical attitude in life.
In this context, objection/opposition is therefore welcome. 
Bring it on!


BOYZONE Live

A fabulous night out with my darling daughter.
BOYZONE LIVE at Axiata Arena, Bukit Jalil, Kuala Lumpur.
Friday 24th August 2018.

It's not everyday that one gets VVIP tickets for an international top class performance. Second row way up front - best seats ever!
Wonderful experience.  Joined in the fun and screamed my lungs out ...













Monday, August 13, 2018

APLOMB

Don't wallow in negativism! 
Think happy thoughts; engage in wholesome activities.
When people say you're funny, fabulous, gracious and gentle; friendly, cute and a little crazy; endearing, adorable one-of-a-kind, believe it because you are!
Step out in faith - calling things that are not as if they are!
Celebrate You with aplomb and remember, you're worth all the fuss ...



POISON

Someone wrote: "Unforgiveness is liken to one taking poison and hoping the opposition (enemy) dies!" 

Brutal but there you are.
Trust me the opposition will not die but the one harbouring unforgiveness likely will. Do ourselves a favour; don't be poisoned by unforgiveness.  Dying such a gruesome death is not worth it!


It's truly liberating, this forgiveness thingy...





SPILLS AND THRILLS

Everyone has a story ... maybe a sob story.
😣I believe God is working behind the scene arranging things in our favor. He's working for our good although we can't feel, see, hear, sense or believe it!
Three hundred sixty five days; 24/7 God is in charge.
Like many before us, we too have been to hell and back.
Tough ... but  through all the spills and not so-many-thrills, I know now God was with me all the time.
He promised never to leave or forsake me.😇 I trust Him at His word... hallelujah




IN LOVE

Romance is always in the air. 
Fall in love with Life ... and you'll never have a dull moment.


THOSE WERE THE DAYS


When work is engaging, satisfying and meaningful, it feels more like play! I had given the best years of my life to my company - 28 years.
Blood, sweat, tears; bitter, sweet, sour, spicy and every kind of emotion attached to corporate life, I've tasted them all! No regrets. All things work out for good ... eventually.
Love your work and work with love😍
Sweet to have pictures - memories of Those Were The Days ....
















IF I PERISH, I PERISH

Today's thought is on Moses confronting Pharaoh to "let my people go!" 

When you challenge the establishment, make sure you can take the heat. The hierarchy won't take kindly to the disorder and disruption you're bound to create when you rock the boat. People like that tend to play god!
Don't be surprised when you're thrown into the furnace or lion's den whatever those situations may be in modern times. You have no back up and no one is rushing to your aid. You're all alone, trembling and freaking out.


Was Moses scared? I bet he was - nerve wrecking; knee buckling; palm sweating; stuttering - terrified. Did he ever think of turning back? Heck, my times, I'm sure but ... 'a man must do what a man must do.' He had concluded that anything was better than another four hundred years of slavery in a foreign land!


Are you up to it? Not going to be easy. In fact it's going to cost you, "If I perish, I perish." Queen Esther thought it was worth it.
Take a deep breath. Be afraid but know that God is with you every step of the way.
Go Nike - Just Do It!



Thursday, August 2, 2018

NEAR PERFECT

Is it a sin if one is attractive; smart, strong, sharp, sexy, sensitive, sensational.
Throw in gentle, kind, caring, loving, giving.
Add on witty, humorous and resourceful all in one!? 
Would it be a crime to punish such a person!
?


TRUST

"God, we are puzzled about life and its unfairness. So many questions unanswered. 
You have shown Yourself good to us in countless ways.
Help us to trust You for what we cannot understand."
Amen.



DEAFENING

Silence speaks volumes.
Do not overthink or over imagine the worst when people suddenly go silent on you. Introspection doesn't help but increases self torment.
Silence can be deafening. When that becomes unbearable, softly walk away. There's no need for drama.
Give breathing space for the silent ones. They may be choking and unable to speak.
Be generous in spirit; thoughtful, gentle, kind and compassionate.
And yes, be ready to lend a helping hand...


SAMBA

A pastor friend encouraged a group of us seniors to 'follow our heart.'
"Do something crazy!"
I was skeptical, "What do you mean, c r a z y, Pastor? 

Errrrrrrrr like dancing naked in the living room c r a z y ?"
She winked wickedly, " why not...if you feel like it!"


Hah! There's alot I 'feel like' but I will not venture into dancing naked in the living room! Nope... not even fully clothed.
However I shall be quite uninhibited and do a samba in the shower. Yes, yes... naked!
Soooooo brave me!!



BOUNCING

The secret to staying young ... bouncing with enthusiasm ... beaming with joy ... prospering in good health ...walking on air ... living peaceably ... enjoying life ... being happy is : Love unreservedly and be loved unconditionally!
That's the real Mc-Coy!



TRAVEL

Travel widens our horizon; enlarges our world vision. We get to experience and appreciate diverse cultures and lifestyles of people around the globe.
Never imagined a country bumpkin like me can travel places, see the world ---- and often in style!😄 Nothing is impossible if we believe, PLAN and WORK!
Every country has something unique to offer and I always come away in awe and thankful for the rich, astounding and memorable encounters. I was even fortunate enough to make repeated visits to some much loved destinations.
Some places that I've been to:
China - Shanghai, Wuxi, Hangzhou, Suzhou, Xiamen etc etc
Taiwan, Hong Kong, Macau,
Singapore, Sabah
Australia - Sydney, Brisbane, Queensland, Canberra etc
New Zealand
Europe - Germany, France, Denmark Switzerland, Amsterdam, UK, Scotland - Edinburg, Birmingham, Glasgow, London, Belgium etc.
Rome, Croatia, Montenegro, Greece,
AND Israel which is definitely my most favorite!

Germany, Poland, Norway, Sweden, Finland and Iceland are in the pipeline. 
Giving thanks with a grateful heart...blessed and blissful traveller.
Sydney, Australia


PUNISHMENT

We have to first forgive ourselves and only then can we begin to forgive others.
When we are hard on others we are actually hurting ourselves; physically, emotionally, psychologically and socially. Like it or not anger and aggression beget argument, agitation, animosity and alienation. These have adverse effects which are damaging to our well being. Why subject ourselves to such undue punishment.
Forgive ...



SANTORINI

Falling in love is easy! Staying in love? .... well .... that's quite something else!
(Santorini, Greece)