A book by Lynn Wong: 3/1/24

A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Tuesday, March 5, 2024

ABUNDANCE

Long after the festivities have ended and decorations stored away, sweet memories linger...of happy times spent with family and friends. A good opportunity for reunions and gatherings to 'kepoh' and exchange pleasantries over traditional CNY dishes! Everyone is exceptionally agreeable during this brief season

Abundance holds different meaning for different people and as long as we have a heart of gratitude and contentment; a spirit of joy, calm and peace, what little we have is abundant.

God is good all the time.

LOVE vs PITY

Love and pity are two different emotions. Because of the fine line between them, pity is often mistaken for love!

A 'pity relationship' poses many extra challenges and wears out one party more than the other. There's a tendency of one taking advantage of the other. Under such dire circumstances there aren't many options; either cultivate tough love or bail out...
Life is full of difficult decisions. This is just one of them.

Live, love, laugh...be happy regardless.

COMFY

Different look for different folks! Whatever suits you and makes you feel good. Go for it. Celebrate our differences! Add colours to outfits just as we would add colours to our lives. Be flamboyant if that's your style. Fashion is what you make it or perceive it to be.

These days even ABSURD is fashionable. Who is to say. Kansai is how you want to look, kansai it shall be! Enjoy mixing and matching just as in life.

I'm comfortable with my look. To each her own.

HIBERNATE

To hibernate isn't all bad but once in awhile we need to go out for a breath of fresh air and change in scenery. Quiet is calm, serene, tranquil and most soothing.

However we tend to get mouldy ... gathering moss... being in solitude for too long.

Reach out and be touched; you are missed...

MERCI

A gal can never have too many hats! So me... Happy as can be.

Merci beaucoup for the lovely gift. Have lovely days.

About the Author

Lynn Wong was the Managing Director of a multinational company. She had an interesting and fulfilling career, much of which involved and encompassed all forms of corporate management and leadership development. Lynn writes with candid frankness on a wide range of subjects, hopping in and out of the classroom, the kitchen, the bedroom and the boardroom! Her writings, at times, are peppered with cheekiness and humour.

After her early retirement, she studied Psychology majoring in Counselling; a subject which has gripped and fascinated her since childhood. Having successfully graduated, she is now better equipped to continue her work with young children, working adults and senior citizens in various non profitable organizations.

She can be reached at

lynnwong68@gmail.com