ANGELS IN DISGUISE

Kindness is an intentional choice; one which you can choose to intentionally withhold or lavishly dispense. You decide. 
A little kindness may be all an aggrieved, stressful and burnout person is asking for. 
A single mother holding two jobs to keep the family together; a disturbed teenager who is being bullied at school; a father who has lost a child; a dying man; a breadwinner who has lost his job; a lonely widow --- just hoping for a listening ear; non judgmental, non critical... crying for some compassion, a little understanding, a hint of empathy --- just asking for a break.  So tired, so lost, so forlorn.

"It must be tough on you..." 

"Sorry, I didn't mean for this to happen to you..."

"I understand; I do ..."

It is never easy for a usually strong person to admit needing help. And no one cares to be pressured or harassed into telling their troubles, woes and cares. 
Angels don't barge into people's lives but when invited, kind souls found among family, friends, school mates, colleagues and even total strangers are on standby to help.
Isn't it true? How often we have been visited by angels in disguise...bless you all !

CLICHE

"Begin With The End In Mind." A popular cliche by Stephen Covey.
If we can apply this principle diligently, passionately, consistently, sensibly and with a heavy dose of discipline, there's every chance our life could be happier, more significant, more effective, more productive; healthier and less hazardous. 
For our sake, we ought to seriously consider the end result - of our words, actions, thoughts, deeds etc - at the beginning! Don't wait until it's too late.
Unwelcome surprises can be rather ugly and unpleasant!

IF ONLY

A close relative stepped into eternity recently. He was a fine man nearing retirement after a lifetime of toil and labor. His family mourned, said he had big plans. He wanted to do all the things he never had the chance before to pursue. Unfortunately, he died and took all those dreams, desires, aspirations and goals with him. 
I thought of Steve Jobs and his dying words made popular by social media; strong exhortations and wise advice that have helped many put their lives and priorities in the right perspective. Even if those words were not spoken by the man himself and they were faked, people would still take heed because they sounded good! 
All the "what ifs and if onlys" are meaningless when the curtain falls; too late then!
If what Steve Jobs said made any sense, I think it's worthwhile to really take stock of our lives. Don't wait till it's Game Over!

UNCERTAINTIES

Oh... to have family and friends with whom we can sup, sing, share and draw support from is sheer joy; a privilege not to be looked upon lightly. For in a blink of an eye, anything and everything can change. All that we are familiar with and hold dear can be snatched from us without warning or apology. 
Such is life with its many uncertainties. Hang on to the happy times for as long as we can and start by giving thanks with a grateful heart...