A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Sunday, September 8, 2013

TOUGH LOVE

So, you're married. 
Elated but exhausted!

You're finding out that LOVE means patience, kindness, tolerance, gentleness, perseverance, caring and sharing, without which the 'I do' doesn't make sense.

The past year had gone by in a flash and during that time, you've put up with each other's annoyances, irritations, idiosyncrasies, temper tantrums but through all these reminded yourselves 'never to let the sun go down on your anger.' 
(Secret No. 1 to a happy union!)


You've felt frustration, anxiety and intimidation when things weren't going well and there was lack. Learn to be content in whatever situation whether in poverty or wealth. 
(Secret No.2)

Oh, the joy of spending your life with that special someone who thinks you're special too; to wipe your tears, offer comfort/encouragement, chase away your fears and hold you up when you're falling.
To dream and build upon those dreams together.


And of course someone to do your laundry, keep house and prepare midnight snacks at your bidding. 
What bliss...


Happy 1st Anniversary, Brandon and June. 
Hugs and Love...



It's not what you eat but with whom you share the meal that adds value to a relationship, bringing fulfillment, joy and contentment.

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