A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Thursday, September 27, 2012

LOVE BUILDS


We try to demonstrate our love for family and friends in various ways. We don't always succeed and sometimes our good intentions are mistaken. People have different characteristics and behavioral patterns. When someone doesn't respond to you in the way that you expect, you should not fault him or imagine that he dislikes you. It could simply be that he was brought up differently, not better or worse off than you, just different. Leave it at that.

Humans crave love, recognition and acceptance.
Declarations such as "You're the best thing that have ever happened to me" or "I've fallen for you", or "You're my world, you're my life, you're my everything",  have some elements of the above.
Anyone who receives those compliments are bound to be so affected, for some even to a point of delirium.

I've heard them all before and very likely so have you!  Words so full of conviction and passion but only for a season and with the passing of the season, they have become empty mutterings now devoid of any lasting truth.
But this is the way of the world. 
So the search for love, approval and acceptance continues...

"For this purpose I've emptied myself that you may experience the FULLEST of life in every form. It is my good pleasure to prosper you not only with wealth but also in your health, relationship, family, career and much much more. All that I have belong to you, even my life!"
In other words, "I gladly give up everything for you. I will never leave you or harm you.  You will be safe with me for all eternity.  You've tried the ways of the world but my way and my love is not of this world.  Trust and believe in me  - JC-"
I do!

When I feel that no one loves me and my world is caving in on me, I cling to that Promise!
Call me old fashioned but faith in the BIG JC seems to work for me.
At least He's consistent!
Think I'll stick with Him  :-)

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