THE KING AND I

Shall we dance?

We've just been introduced
I do not know you well
But when the music started
Something drew me to your side.

The magic of movies...they don't make them like they used to.

THREE STOOGES

After all this time, they are still at it; punishing her.  
And what was her crime?  Standing her ground and stating the facts! But then facts strike hard, and not surprisingly, self absorbed and egoistical snobs refuse reality to admit their mistakes.  
Those stooges who think they know it all; the shallow, naive and bungling bozos who go around in circles, making fools of themselves. 
Fighting their own shadows with no real adversaries!!  Silly.

So, what's the moral of the story?

No morals! only morons who go around playing gods and throwing their weight around!  
The funny thing is, no one's paying any attention but are instead laughing behind their backs!

OUCH!!

SOUND SLEEP

Indecision keeps us awake at night.

Nothing is more stressful than having two minds about an issue.

Little is achieved when we are fickle, fearful and flighty. 

You know you've procrastinated for too long. Just couldn't get yourself to act and so rested on your laurels.  Unfortunately, the matter didn't go away even when you thought you had swept it under the carpet.  And it will stay for as long as you do nothing.

Determine what needs to be done.  Do the right thing first and if you can manage that, then start to do things right!

Even if you have to take stock and cut loss; eat humble pie; face the music and make difficult changes...do it.

Closure is only possible with decision one way or the other.

And hopefully with that comes sound sleep.

BESTIES

A bank account depletes and eventually registers zero when there are only withdrawals and no deposits.

A relationship loses lustre and value when you stop investing into it. And surely a neglected entity is as good as dead if you give it up entirely. 

When people love - trust, admire, believe and support - each other they tend to look out for one another, cover each other's back, think the best and make excuses for shortcomings that inevitably surface. 

There are bound to be disagreements and disappointments but taken in a positive light and constructive manner, these serve to enhance, build and strengthen not only the alliance as a whole but the individual more so. 

What privilege to be in such strong, steady and stable relationships.

Life is so much more interesting and engaging when there is someone you can confide in, share anecdotes, crack jokes, poke, argue and banter for ages on just about any topic. Yes, even a shoulder to cry on.  You don't have to worry about offending him or hurting his sensitivities because basically both of you are committed and emotionally entwined to understand the workings of a healthy partnership.  

You've learned to read signs and signals to act and react appropriately. There is no necessity to read between the lines or probe in an annoying manner. You just know.

You miss him all the time and look expectantly, with the hope to find him, in the sea of people you come across everyday, even though it's just wishful thinking.   He is not near but still you would delight to catch a glimpse of that familiar face. You've grown accustomed to the mischievous glint in the eye; the cheeky smile; the gentle but firm voice; the reassuring touch.  These are your daily manna.

A pact has been sealed with sworn allegiance to each other's growth, development, advancement and well being.  Neither one is pushy but allows the other the freedom to explore, experiment and enjoy the offerings and wonders of this most amazing and enriching relationship you share.

How sweet....

DITTO

I won't ever forget you, I promise ...

HERE'S LOOKING AT YOU, KID

Here's looking at you, kid!

You're okay. Even with your failings, flaws, fickleness and imperfections. These make you real! 

When you go too slow, you'll be left behind and when you speed ahead, others can't follow. Strike a balance. Stay on course and remember to smile! 

Cheerio...

SPIRIT OF COMPASSION

Thankfully for some, the worst is over. Unfortunately, for others, the nightmare is only just beginning. 
We, who have been through trying and turbulent times remember what it was like groping in the dark, in despair and disillusioned. 
Many of those tormenting experiences have taught us priceless and precious lessons in life that are worthwhile to share with fellow sufferers. 
"He who refreshes others will himself be refreshed."
It may not seem like much but your tiny act of generosity, kindness, tolerance and compassion could very well be all that the sorrowful individual needs right now.

HEARTBREAKING

It's heartbreaking to let a friendship/relationship die, but, difficult as that may be, it's far better than to watch it turn ugly.
When someone -- anyone -- shuts the door in your face, despite your efforts to stay amicable, it's recommended that you give him up, walk away and don't look back. 
Both of you will be happier that way.

"AHA"

"Aha" moments take me by surprise! 
But then surprises aren't really surprising, not when they are being sought after --- for who is not constantly searching for something out of the ordinary!?

If I weren't looking for a certain "Aha" experience how would I know when it appears!? 

"Aha"

EUPHORIA

Oh, the heady days; remembering how it was, being pursued...persuaded...pampered...and put on a pedestal. 
The euphoria of loving and being loved.

There's never a dull moment with love in the air and everywhere ...