A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Saturday, October 18, 2014

ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE ...

Love unlocks the heart caged in misery

Love frees the tormented mind

Love undo hurts and restores

Love overlooks flaws and put matters right


Love unleashes the power, potential and passion to start over again


Love makes a man a king


With love all things are possible.





Thursday, October 16, 2014

PROFITABLE BUSINESS

It takes years to build a profitable business. 
Success doesn't just come by itself over night. 

People made sacrifices, toiled long and hard to make it happen. To sustain the growth of an organization requires more than wishful thinking, good intentions and foolish sentiments. 

There has to be strong leadership, wise management, competent managers and reliable staff to pull it off. 
Otherwise it's only a matter of time before the company folds up and such a pity and injustice that would be to the people who gave their all to build the company in the first place.




Friday, October 10, 2014

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN

With moral sensitivity and conscientious thinking, it becomes easier to say what we mean and mean what we say. 
The propensity to exaggerate and make excuses will only worsen an already soured relationship.
 
Don't have people pore between the lines and draw wrong conclusions. 
Never assume.
Let our Yes be Yes and No be No. Keep it simple.

Disputes, arguments and conflicts can be minimized when we take responsibility and accountability for our words.


Wednesday, October 8, 2014

ROLE MODEL

Everyone has different talents suitably bestowed on him/her for a unique purpose.

You may have the gift of teaching, public speaking, creating, acting, dancing, singing, writing, baking, cooking, organizing, building and a host of others. 
Everyone has at least one great talent that stands above the rest and when in use would be life changing. 

Gifts are not only for our pleasure but greater good of the community, to enhance our influence and impact the corner of the world where we are as parents, children, employers, professionals, care-givers, service providers etc.


You might not have signed up as a role model but you are one already...



Saturday, October 4, 2014

ON HINDSIGHT

People may reject us because they consider us less than (their brand of) perfect and do not fit into their rigid mould. 
Although saddened by their rude dismissal, we can only grimace but can do little to reverse their thinking and action.
After all it is their prerogative to behave in that manner.

On hindsight, it can't be all bad. 

Imagine how it must feel to have your hands and feet tied, eyes blind folded and mouth gagged when you're around such people ... tragic! 

So instead of being frustrated and even angry, lets be glad for the 'rejection and dismissal'. 
We are finally free to be ourselves.



Tuesday, September 30, 2014

IN LIMBO

Words are powerful. 
They cause us to fall in love in an instant and transport us to a state of euphoria.
In reverse, they kill relationships just as quickly and leave us in limbo. 

Words carelessly uttered may cause irreparable damage that lasts a lifetime. 
In contrast when graciously delivered, words can lift our spirits so high we forget ourselves ...


Sunday, September 28, 2014

CYCLE OF LIFE

When wrong relationships are removed from your life, right relationships will surface.
Often times the old, the obsolete, has to make way for the new.  That's just a natural cycle of life.

Rather than resist change, embrace it...




Friday, September 26, 2014

SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE

An excellent spirit cannot be forged or bought. Neither can it be forced. 
An attitude of excellence can be adopted as a way of life. 
When harnessed and nurtured at an early age, the desire to do the best, give the best and be the best can become the driving force to excellent living. 

You alone set the standard.


Saturday, September 20, 2014

PHENOMENAL WOMAN

by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.



Thursday, September 18, 2014

STILL I RISE by Maya Angelou

(4th April 1928 - 28th May 2014)




You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may tread me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you? 
Why are you beset with gloom? 
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken? 
Bowed head and lowered eyes? 
Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Weakened by my soulful cries.

Does my haughtiness offend you? 
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own back yard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you? 
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs? 

Out of the huts of history's shame
I rise
Up from a past that's rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.