A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

CHRISTMAS IN HONG KONG

I get nostalgic just thinking about it ...


Attached pictures of three Christmases ago with family and friends, walking the streets of 'Lan-Kwai-Fong' on Christmas Day ... aahhhhh ... such a wonderful feeling of warmth, welcome and wellness.


And Yes!  I'm spending this Christmas season in Hong Kong, one of my favourite places in the world ... yea...


Mystical, magnetic, magical and magnificent Hong Kong, here I come!












Saturday, November 20, 2010

HOME SWEET HOME ...

Yes, another week has gone by.
The market place is an exciting place, frightening as well. 
Most of us work out of need.  And since this is something that is expected of us, we might as well make the best of it!
Winning is what all corporate games is about.  But to make it sound nicer and more civilise, we prefer to say, 'Lets have a WIN-WIN situation in all work related confrontations!
When it comes to fierce competition for that coveted promotion or to land that big deal, it's each man for himself!
Although the steps up the proverbial ladder of success are made of cardboard and the two poles that you grasp to haul yourself up are greased with oil, doesn't seem to deter the corporate aggressor in you to make a go at reaching the summit.
It's a dog-eat-dog world; a rat race.
And may the best rat wins!
I had a look at my normal work week and at the end of the exercise came up with some interesting findings.
I occupy an 18 feet by 20 feet space at an office which measures in total 44 feet in width by 95 feet in length.
Considering that, I am quite comfortable and am better off than many who are confined in tiny cubicles of 4 feet by 8 feet.
It's a privilege that comes with the position! (broad smile)
In case you have different ideas, I do go there to work and not to enjoy the air-conditioning! (wink)
In a normal work week I would view an approximately 700-800 emails (on 3 different email addresses), 80 percent of them are on the business while the balance are personal and forwarded ones.  I need only reply personally on 30 percent of those that are related to work.  The rest are delegated.  Another privilege accorded to my position!
Weekly, I take in a minimum of ten to twelve meetings/discussions; several phone calls, mostly pleasant ones.
(I make my usual rounds, acknowledging all the other staff and even stopping to ask about the janitor's (an Indonesian woman in her forties) health and how her family is doing back home. Not forgetting also the Indian boy who whistles while cleaning my car.  He happily breaks into song (and does a jig) whenever he sees me. He knows lunch for that day will be a little more lavish because of the extra 'kopi money' he will receive for certain.)
I need my coffee to start the day and consume up to 18 cups (ten of 3-in-1 and the rest Kopi-O) and 8 large mugs of Chinese tea. My weekly ration.
Who says work is a bore?  It needn't be.
Brunches and lunches are usually taken in different restaurants with a wide selection of Chinese, Indian, Muslim, Italian, German, Japanese, Vietnamese etc...
Distance is never a deterrent when it comes to food.  Somedays I would do 50 kilometres just to have the best 'kway teow soup' in town... thanks to the recommendation of food expert Mr. Wong.  With the assistance of the now popular GPS, I can tell the difference between Semenyih and Segambut! (Don't laugh.  I bet you didn't know the difference between the two at one time as well!) heheheh
On a normal work week with no incidents of bad weather, floods or accidents on the highway, I put in an average of 20 hours on the road; with a minimum of 45 stops at the toll booths, 25 stops at the traffic lights and 2 stops at the SHELL or PETRONAS station for fuel.
Sounds familiar? 
A lot of hours are spent on the road but I'm okay with the arrangement for the present. Drive time is a good time for thinking, planning, strategising, scheming,  reflecting but mostly I use this 'quiet time' for dreaming ... big dreams.
My efforts at work may not be immediately visible but I know for sure that the 'seeds' I have sowed are slowly taking roots.  Eventually they will grow.  I believe I am engage in meaningful work and that adds value to my life.
I am grateful for the career that I have built and the lifestyle it supports.
On the other hand, much as I enjoy the daily adrenaline rush generated at work and tackling the various challenges of doing business, I look forward to ... going home in the evenings.
There is something welcoming about the lights at the porch which would be ON and already visible from a distance. 
Our dog would be at the gate, barking with delight and she'll be wagging her tail like crazy ...
Alighting from the car, I'll kick off my 4 inch 'Charles & Keith' stilettos and slip into softly padded slippers placed neatly and discreetly at the same corner by the winding staircase.
There is a familiar smell as I enter the kitchen...and reach for a glass of freshly squeezed apple juice ... raid the cookie jar and help myself to a large piece of crispy rich Scottish short-bread... sink into my favorite chair and wait for the 'gong' to sound announcing that dinner is ready.
Yes, it's nice to be at work but it's nicer still to be home - sweet home - after a highly charged day at the marketplace. 

Thursday, November 11, 2010

2nd Edition

Dear Friends,

Warm greetings!

I thought you might like to know that we are preparing for the 2nd Edition of As Time Goes By - a book by Lynn Wong.
Yes! the stock to the first lot of Limited Edition is fast running out.
A million thanks to all who supported - whether it was in the purchase of one or one hundred copies!

I am deeply, deeply touched by the many positive feedbacks and responses.
Several people have called me personally to express their heartfelt gratitude for the 'inspiring elements' found in the book.
The best one among all the comments came from a retired nurse.  She has this to say, "You've breathed new life into this old heart...and created a stirring so strong that has caused me to want to do something to help."
This previous 'Florence Nightingale' is prepared to come out of her comfortable retirement to serve once again.

She explained that she found renewed purpose and challenge in her 'old age' through the article on "How Will You Be Remembered?"
She said that perhaps this is a higher calling for her to make a difference and that her life will take on a new meaning through this experience.

Excerpts from the article:
"Rather than take a complacent stand, we should speak up, stand up and support the protection and preservation of our children.  We should not tolerate anymore the injustices done to them." unquote

To the question of, "Will you do something positive to alleviate their sufferings today?"
Her answer was a resounding Yes! Yes! Yes!

I am so glad that ATGB can and do make a difference in people's attitudes and spur them to take action for good changes.
What a privilege it is for me to witness this through my writing. (Giving thanks with a grateful heart).

Back to the 2nd Edition, I'll have more updates in my next post.

Cheerio!

- Lynn -

Monday, November 1, 2010

From the Chapter 'Ordinary Things' by Lynn Wong

I ’ve stopped looking for the spectacular and realized there are excitement
and anticipation in mundane and monotonous situation as well. 
Routine is better. I like to get up in the morning and know what needs to be done. 
It would be terribly depressing and unsettling to have no schedules, 
no plans, no to-do lists! 

The beds would not be made, there would be no food in the refrigerator.
Who would send the kids to school and pick up the laundry?
Consistency is preferred over chaos. Familiarity works well.  
Who needs furniture to be moved every day! Controlled freedom is preferred.  
Assigned parameters are good as they draw clear boundaries to ensure we don’t 
step out of line, yardsticks to measure how far we can go. Who likes to live in a 
lawless state? Orderliness is another form of freedom. Consistency works just as 
well with creativity and innovation. Discipline may be a word many would avoid as 
it denotes certain limitations; out of bounds.   

However, who  would want to suggest that discipline be removed entirely from homes, schools  and government?  

Allow for inquisitiveness; reject complacency and false contentment.
Challenge the mind. Doing the ordinary things for extraordinary results.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

A Reader Writes

28th October 2010

As Time Goes By……

Dear Lynn

It is with such great pleasure that I heard the news of your first book making it to the Top Seller List at MPH! It left me tingling with sheer pride and joy for you.

Congratulations my dear friend.

So wonderful to witness your journey of observations and reflections, capturing the many nuances of life as time goes by, some obvious, some subdued, brought to life in a voice that is sometimes familiar, often encouraging, probing, hinting, enticing, even nudging one to explore and discover for oneself. Delightful!

I get the sense that this is just the beginning of your flirtation with this “novel” idea of yourself as a writer. Your journey may have only just began. I am so excited for you, and wait with anticipation for your journey to unfold.

Your passion for life and living, your dedication to give your best and be your best, your compassion, charm and your wit, will no doubt be the guiding force to your exploration of this part of your journey.

I wish you a most adventurous time, as you explore and hone your skills, scheme and dream, return and thrill us with your next edition, or something with an absolutely new twist. I am sure it will smack of your passion, your unique footprint, and delight us in every way.

Continue to shine your light and live with passion.


All my very best, with love and admiration,

Ms Halimah Kellner
Vermont, USA

Thursday, October 21, 2010

With thanks from Lynn Wong

A friend sent me the below link!
I had to pinch myself ... real hard!
Can it be true?


AS TIME GOES BY - my very first book made it to the
Best Seller List at the MPH bookstores!
That's pretty amazing. Remarkable as it may seem,
my dream has become a reality.
whopeeeeee...


I would like to thank everyone for making this possible.
Indeed I am overwhelmed and at the same time deeply
humbled by this experience.


Praise God!
Just me (still in a state of euphoria...heheheh)


Subject: Bestsellers list for Fiction , Non-Fiction,
Teen Reader and Children at MPHONLINE.COM

Click on below and it will take you directly to the page under
the header of List of Bestsellers ....


http://www.mphonline.com/MobilePage/nsearch.aspx?do=detail&pcode=9789838081993

Wednesday, October 20, 2010


Lynn Wong- the author writes

"As Time Goes By.." is written by a lady, for the ladies on issues that concern
ladies but that is not to say that it cannot be a good read for the Male
population as well. However, from the color scheme, cover including over all
design, and contents, the book admittedly aims to attract the Female Readership.

It is Daring To Be Different!
Break The Convention.
Think Out Of The Box.. Challenge The Norm.
Hey, look at the design of ATGB for example. Who would want to put her own photo
on the cover unless she is Angelina Jolie, or Cameron Diaz or Catherine Zeta Jones?
Names that sell! Ouch! Double Ouch!!

Still I did.
There are some raised eyebrows no doubt and...ahem...plenty of applause,
maybe for different reasons! Perhaps, you could look at it and tell me!
I would like to be distinct. The book has only been in the market for about
3 weeks and I think people are curious, bordering on liking her distinctiveness.
(Anyway, that's that I've been told.) By the way, ladies are the ones seeking the 
book. Maybe it's a sign that we are'maturing', gradually and eventually breaking
the shackles of average-ness or mediocrity that stifles our growth progress.

Ladies need to know that they too have voices that deserve to be heard.
It takes courage, patience and perseverance if you want to make positive changes.
And you can be the change you want to see happen in and around you.

When someone says to you it can't be done, look him in the eye and firmly reply,
"Watch me." If another, even if she is a well-meaning friend, says to you "Why go
through all the hassle?" Stop her in her tracks, cup both her cheeks, look intently
at her and whisper, "Why not. It's worth it"

At this juncture, we shift our focus to the men who are forever scratching their
heads and throwing up their hands in exasperation on pounding tables in 
frustration; wondering why they are once again the receiving end of a cold war,
open floodgates of tears, stormy emotional weather? Uh-duh!
Talking about the relationships with the women in their lives!

What did the poor fellow do? What did he say (or didn't say)?
Gosh you know, he hasn't a clue.
ATGB reveals a woman's heart. It doesn't provide ALL the answers,
of course but you, Prince Charming (who is forever thinking that you are
God's gift to women but unfortunately treated like a second hand treadmill)
will find answers to some of your relationship challenges with women!

It's a book for everybody, really.
Yes, even for the macho man with his wash-board abs and the man who would
like to be seen as being in touch with his feminine side.

Enjoy the read and have a good laugh on the house!

Friday, October 15, 2010

Shopping at MPH Bookstore, One Utama, PJ

















Dear Ms. Lynn,

Just thought I'd write and let you know.
We were thrilled to finally see your book "As Time Goes By..." at MPH
yesterday Wednesday (13th October)

My niece, Sarah, who is 9 years old but already an avid reader, was
the first one who spotted the book!  As you can see she was soooooo
excited that when I took her photograph holding the book, her hands
shook!
Still there was no denying the joy and excitement written on her face
as she smile broadly for the camera.

Congratulations again!  We are so proud and happy for you.
You do Malaysia proud!

Best regards,

Marina Chesterfield
A fan

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Word of Commendation on "As Time Goes By.."

Dear Lynn,


Reading your recently published book entitled "As Time Goes By"
is a most wonderful, enjoyable, exhilarating and unforgettable experience.


You are indeed a very talented writer.
You express your thoughts and feelings very well.
The choice of words is so appropriate and superb.


I can relate to many situations narrated in the book
whether as a child or someone in the workplace.
The experiences so beautifully described in your book
are relevant and meaningful to all who have an
opportunity to read your masterpiece.


I salute you on your fine achievement.
May you continue to write more books in the future.


Your friend,


Ms. Tan Lee Kiang
(ex-Principal Assunta Secondary Girl School Petaling Jaya)



 
"As Time Goes By.." - a book by Lynn Wong
It's a gift a son can present to his father or a teacher to a student.
A good read anywhere, anytime!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

A Dedication to Ms Lynn Wong on the launch of
" As Time Goes By "...

From: 
Mr. Christopher Saklatvala
Writer, Painter & Poet