A review by:
Mr. Chan Bing Fai
Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist
Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.
Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.
It is also about fighting corporate battles.
The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.
Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.
Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.
Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.
Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!
The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.
It is priced at RM27.90.
Pages
Sunday, August 26, 2018
PERFORMANCE
Performance vs Preference.
Choose friends who will always have your back just like you will always have theirs!
HOLD HANDS
My mother had many, many admirers but only one love ...my father. Their union was far from being perfect but they had their moments.
Very few couples I know hold hands in their sleep. My dad and mum did ... love wins.
BE STILL
You have ... the Master of the Universe whispers: "Be still and know that I am God."
OPPOSITION
Positively, from a different perspective, when faced with objections/oppositions, we're compelled to find solutions to remove or overcome them.
Our entire being - body, mind and spirit are then aligned in perfect synchronicity to take on the objection/opposition which has now become the opportunity for our personal growth and greater success. We can no longer adopt a lackadaisical attitude in life.
In this context, objection/opposition is therefore welcome.
BOYZONE Live
BOYZONE LIVE at Axiata Arena, Bukit Jalil, Kuala Lumpur.
Friday 24th August 2018.
It's not everyday that one gets VVIP tickets for an international top class performance. Second row way up front - best seats ever!
Wonderful experience. Joined in the fun and screamed my lungs out ...
Monday, August 13, 2018
APLOMB
Think happy thoughts; engage in wholesome activities.
When people say you're funny, fabulous, gracious and gentle; friendly, cute and a little crazy; endearing, adorable one-of-a-kind, believe it because you are!
Step out in faith - calling things that are not as if they are!
Celebrate You with aplomb and remember, you're worth all the fuss ...
POISON
Brutal but there you are.
Trust me the opposition will not die but the one harbouring unforgiveness likely will. Do ourselves a favour; don't be poisoned by unforgiveness. Dying such a gruesome death is not worth it!
It's truly liberating, this forgiveness thingy...
SPILLS AND THRILLS
😣I believe God is working behind the scene arranging things in our favor. He's working for our good although we can't feel, see, hear, sense or believe it!
Three hundred sixty five days; 24/7 God is in charge.
Like many before us, we too have been to hell and back.
Tough ... but through all the spills and not so-many-thrills, I know now God was with me all the time.
He promised never to leave or forsake me.😇 I trust Him at His word... hallelujah
THOSE WERE THE DAYS
Blood, sweat, tears; bitter, sweet, sour, spicy and every kind of emotion attached to corporate life, I've tasted them all! No regrets. All things work out for good ... eventually.
Love your work and work with love😍
IF I PERISH, I PERISH
When you challenge the establishment, make sure you can take the heat. The hierarchy won't take kindly to the disorder and disruption you're bound to create when you rock the boat. People like that tend to play god!
Don't be surprised when you're thrown into the furnace or lion's den whatever those situations may be in modern times. You have no back up and no one is rushing to your aid. You're all alone, trembling and freaking out.
Was Moses scared? I bet he was - nerve wrecking; knee buckling; palm sweating; stuttering - terrified. Did he ever think of turning back? Heck, my times, I'm sure but ... 'a man must do what a man must do.' He had concluded that anything was better than another four hundred years of slavery in a foreign land!
Are you up to it? Not going to be easy. In fact it's going to cost you, "If I perish, I perish." Queen Esther thought it was worth it.
Take a deep breath. Be afraid but know that God is with you every step of the way.
Go Nike - Just Do It!
Thursday, August 2, 2018
NEAR PERFECT
Throw in gentle, kind, caring, loving, giving.
Add on witty, humorous and resourceful all in one!?
Would it be a crime to punish such a person!?
TRUST
You have shown Yourself good to us in countless ways.
Help us to trust You for what we cannot understand."
Amen.
DEAFENING
Do not overthink or over imagine the worst when people suddenly go silent on you. Introspection doesn't help but increases self torment.
Silence can be deafening. When that becomes unbearable, softly walk away. There's no need for drama.
Give breathing space for the silent ones. They may be choking and unable to speak.
Be generous in spirit; thoughtful, gentle, kind and compassionate.
And yes, be ready to lend a helping hand...
SAMBA
"Do something crazy!"
I was skeptical, "What do you mean, c r a z y, Pastor?
Errrrrrrrr like dancing naked in the living room c r a z y ?"
She winked wickedly, " why not...if you feel like it!"
Hah! There's alot I 'feel like' but I will not venture into dancing naked in the living room! Nope... not even fully clothed.
However I shall be quite uninhibited and do a samba in the shower. Yes, yes... naked!
Soooooo brave me!!
BOUNCING
That's the real Mc-Coy!
TRAVEL
Never imagined a country bumpkin like me can travel places, see the world ---- and often in style!😄 Nothing is impossible if we believe, PLAN and WORK!
Every country has something unique to offer and I always come away in awe and thankful for the rich, astounding and memorable encounters. I was even fortunate enough to make repeated visits to some much loved destinations.
Some places that I've been to:
China - Shanghai, Wuxi, Hangzhou, Suzhou, Xiamen etc etc
Taiwan, Hong Kong, Macau,
Singapore, Sabah
Australia - Sydney, Brisbane, Queensland, Canberra etc
New Zealand
Europe - Germany, France, Denmark Switzerland, Amsterdam, UK, Scotland - Edinburg, Birmingham, Glasgow, London, Belgium etc.
Rome, Croatia, Montenegro, Greece,
AND Israel which is definitely my most favorite!
Germany, Poland, Norway, Sweden, Finland and Iceland are in the pipeline.
PUNISHMENT
When we are hard on others we are actually hurting ourselves; physically, emotionally, psychologically and socially. Like it or not anger and aggression beget argument, agitation, animosity and alienation. These have adverse effects which are damaging to our well being. Why subject ourselves to such undue punishment.
Forgive ...
SANTORINI
(Santorini, Greece)