A review by:

Mr. Chan Bing Fai

Former school teacher, Headmaster and educational technologist

Lynn Wong's latest book is SMILE though your heart is ACHING. This is a much awaited book, a worthy sequel to her first book "As Time Goes By" published five years ago. Both her books are generally about life and living. They are not autobiographies.

Her first book is centred more on childhood memories and growing up pains based more on events, observations and her responses and reactions to them, with the innocence of a child. Her latest book, however, is about the adult world with its ups and downs.

It is also about fighting corporate battles.

The words she has chosen carry her thoughts succinctly. They are warm and friendly without being pretentious. The topics included in both her books cover a broad spectrum of subjects and events. Some are more hilarious and many are focused on a more serious note.

Her approach to life is spontaneous, governed by prudence and common sense. It appears lighthearted and easy. Being a keen observer, even trifles, will not escape her scrutiny. Her response to these is largely based on common sense and knowledge; laced with wisdom.

Her thoughts flow through smoothly from one idea to another and the transition is gentle, methodical, tidy and logical. Lynn's philosophy appears simple and yet very profound and thoughtful; gracious and tinged with a lot of human skills and understanding.

Her books are very personal and subjective; unique, highly perceptive, intimate and reflective. I have enjoyed reading both her books and excitedly look forward to her next one which I hope will not take too long to come to fruition.

Her artist -illustrator- is equally talented in bringing out the many encounters and experiences of the author through her drawings; depicting expressions, moods and emotions subtly and with precision. Congratulations to both of you for complementing each other perfectly!

The typography and layout is attractive and designed for easy reading. The book is available in major bookstores.

It is priced at RM27.90.

Thursday, July 22, 2021

BECAUSE HE LIVES

Not a pretty picture!

That was twenty seven years ago when I first made national news!
Unfortunately it wasn't for any glamourous event or noble cause! The accident happened on that fateful morning when I had dropped my daughter off at school as usual. I was cruising happily on the highway to work enjoying my favorite songs, spun by celebrity DJ, Yasmin Yusuf, on the radio when I saw from the rear view mirror a menacing looking black Mercedes charging at me in breakneck speed. Before I could even mutter OMY, it had ploughed hard into the rear of my sporty red Mazda.
The tremendous impact resulted in a nasty pileup with me pinned at the bottom!
I had the most horrifying fright of my life! Thankfully I came out unscathed though badly shaken. That incident certainly changed my life's perspective.
Of course, since then I've had many, many more terrible, scarier and nastier encounters and experiences which have left even deeper imprints!!
I realized adversities, trials and tests, produce patience, perseverance and endurance.
In despair I've found my destiny; in pain I've found peace; in weakness I've found self worth; in forlorn agony I've found the finished work of Christ evident in my life.
In dying to self I am finding life abundant.
So grateful for all the things I once had but don't anymore.
Glad for all the people who left to make room for those meant to stay.
Awed to witness curses that turned to blessings.
And to top them all I'm truly grateful and blessed for a secured future because I know in whose hand my future lies...my Abba, my Father...
Because He lives, I can face tomorrow.



BRING IT ON

Once upon a time, in our youth, we were fearless! We dared to attempt the impossible. 

Impetuous, obstinate and determined we were unstoppable. We bulldozed our way through life, oblivious of consequences.  Danger was not in our vocabulary. We relished in being and were happy. Life was simple. And then we grew up! 

Inevitably, we had our share of heartbreaks, headaches, hard knocks and a fair amount of humiliations! We matured, mellowed, made peace and persevered with changes. We've become more suspicious, reserved and guarded; shed much of our naivete and embraced a new daring. Age has a way to tame the raging spirit, soothe the hurting heart and bury the unwelcome past. On reflection...what if all we've been through is a setup... Hardships-endurance-refinement = Character Building 

🤔 How else can we ever hope to be all we were created to be...💗💗💗
 "Happy Sister Day," ...YOU awesome ladies who are saying, "Bring it On!"
Blessings to one and all...



WOW MOMENTS

WOW moments are scarce...fleeting...short-lived! But when they happen, the adrenaline rush stirs the senses; jolts one out of misery; brings heightened joy often indescribable.

Words, regardless of their eloquence, are inadequate to express the shocking pleasure of the moment. It makes us want to dance ...tap our feet...break out in song! We live in difficult times with endless challenges. People are crumbling under the weight of seemingly insurmountable burdens. Be the catalyst ... create WOW moments...for others and also for self.

We need these for our sanity. Tomorrow might not come for some, at least we have today...







Wednesday, June 30, 2021

LOVE...HARMONY...UNITY

Focus on the present...one day at a time. 

Don't get distracted! Steer clear of pessimistic and negative influences; faked news...false prophets...foolish fantasies...financial scams...filthy lies...feeble excuses. Throw them all out! Lets face it. Some times 'My Way' isn't always the best way! Instead try 'Our Way'....we don't have to do life solo. It's more meaningful with people who look out for one another. 

God's grace is sufficient for the day...the moment.  He sends fresh manna (provision) daily. Enduring peace and joy is possible only when we trust, believe and obey our Father above. Rejoice...a new day dawns.



MANAGEMENT SKILLS

To sustain a satisfying and successful relationship requires an enormous amount of skilful management!

The health of any worthwhile relationship is not dependent on feelings.
Sweet emotions such as love, sacrificial giving, tender care, gratitude, trust, surrender etc are the result ...product...of excellent Relationship Management, without which we will never taste the sweetness, satisfaction, fulfilment and fullness we so long for...



WEIRD

Celebrate being human...wild, witty, wilful, wise, weary, whimsy; weird! 

It's okay to step out of character at times. Laugh at ourselves. Leave the confines of the comfort zone!

Life is short...it can still be splendid ... sensational ...supernatural!
Good or bad; happy or sad...this too will pass. Meanwhile we look out for one another.



THIRD TOTAL MCO

Third time total lockdown ...there's absolute quietness in my neighbourhood. Even the cats and dogs aren't out to play! 

Sombre mood but life goes on. Personally, I welcome the 'solitude'...the 'silence' ... quietening of the body and spirit doeth good for the soul.

Relish the stillness; remove the distractions. Rest...relax...recharge...rejuvenate; enter into His Presence with reverence. For that is when God draws near and whispers your name.
Stay safe...stay hopeful...stay joyful...despite trying circumstances.





Home kitchen

Baking is June, our daughter-in-law's passion; pies and cookies her specialties!

From one flavour - creamy chicken - June and Brandon (our son) have developed three more flavours; beef stew pie, creamy mushroom pie and curry chicken pie bringing the total to four flavours!
I enjoy them all. My thickening waistline gives me away...points to my carnal indulgence!
Other than pies, June's cookies - pineapple ball, pure butter, melting peanut, mixed nut florentine - are available still by popular demand, even when out of season.
May 2021 marked the 1st Anniversary of their home based pie kitchen, "June's Delight." We are truly grateful and appreciative of our many loyal family, friends and customers for their thumbs up, constant support and encouragement. They give the children the much needed boost, motivation and inspiration to continue in the business.
Thank you from the heart...















Monroe Marilyn

She knew I needed a boost and so she came ... in all her splendour.

Eighteen months in the waiting! Finally she made an appearance. Although I had given up on her it appears she has not! As long as there is life, there is hope. Let faith, hope and love arise to see us through this trying time.

Sending blessings and all kind thoughts to one and all...




CATALYST

Give the gift of encouragement today. Be the beacon...the light that seeks to diminish the darkness in our presently grim world. It only takes a spark to get the fire going!

Happiness is inexhaustible. The more we give ... in greater abundance shall we receive! 
Encouragement = Happiness. 
Surely we're blessed to be a blessing